TY - BOOK AU - Moyer,Melinda Wenner TI - How To Raise Kids Who Aren't Assholes: science-based strategies for better parenting-from tots to teens SN - 9780593086933 AV - HQ769 .M924 2021 U1 - 649/.1 23 PY - 2021///] CY - New York PB - G. P. Putnam's Sons KW - Child rearing KW - Child development KW - Child psychology N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; Part I. Traits -- "It's all about me!" How to raise kids who aren't (overly) selfish -- "This is too hard." How to raise kids who are ambitious, resilient, and motivated -- "You're dumb and ugly!" How to raise kids who don't bully-and who help those who are bullied -- "I'm telling the truth, dammit!" How to raise kids who won't lie or swear-or at least, not when it matters -- "Girls can't do that." How to raise kids whoaren't sexist -- "I'm perfect." How to raise kids who have healthy self-esteem-but aren't narcissistic -- "Her skin look s dirty." How to raise kids who aren't racist -- Part II. Strategies -- "You can't make me!" Shaping behavior and values -- "I hate my brother." Helping siblings get along -- "Where's the iPad?" Managing screens, games, and social media -- "When I touch it, it gets bigger!" talking to kids about sex and pornography N2 - "A clear, actionable, sometimes humorous (but always science-based) guide for parents on how to shape their kids into honest, kind, generous, confident, independent, and resilient people...who just might save the world one day"-- ER -